“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
Hey guys! Yes, I’m alive! It’s been FOREVER since my last post, I mean I missed a whole month. Am I sorry? Nope. Here’s why. During my month and let’s say couple weeks of absence, I’ve been going through a rough patch. You know, the sort of rough patch that makes you numb and emotionally as well as mentally crippled. Suffice to say, I’ve not been doing good. My motivation to write, think, feel, heck some days even move! has been nil. Here’s proof:
I won’t say that I haven’t been feeling like myself lately because I have and trust me that’s the worst part of all this. Anyways, during my absence I rethought a lot of things and decided to change things up on here a little bit, you know, just to facilitate my peace of mind. If you’ve been here before, you’ll realize that the site looks a little bit different (hope you like it!) I won’t say there was any real reasoning behind the change but I definitely saw it as a rebirth for our site.
Here’s a heads up as well, the plan of having a different theme for each month has been cancelled. I came to the realization that I was taking Millennial Haven and trying to cram it into a box, trying to make it fit a mold that I knew it wouldn’t fit into (I know right, how hypocritical of me). I got tempted and left all I knew and all i’d learnt behind to fill an impossible quota that I’m pretty sure I set for myself. So from here on out expect things that are out of order, topics that don’t correlate, and posts being put up at random times of day, some clustered together, others heavily spaced out, basically, expect the unexpected from Millennial Haven. My mind doesn’t work in a straight line. It works in curves, and zigzags, and splashes. My mind is my own and the greatest disservice I can do to it is try to morph it into someone else’s. So, I’m going to stop trying to do stuff in a traditional, by the book manner and just pave my own way.
I hope you stay to enjoy this with me. Don’t forget that you can always join in on the conversation , hearing someone else’s voice but my own from time to time really does help. Anyways, happy reading people and see y’all later! Xx